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Reba Nickolai, 55, of Deland, Fla., has withstood Hurricanes Charley, Frances and Jeanne. She got a trailer from FEMA, but lost it last year when the program ended. She’s survived cancer while living with friends and neighbors.
In addition, she’s been chased out of homes by tornados twice in the last two months. On Christmas Day 2006, she and her dog Bartholomew (“Bart”) and cat Corn Muffin were with neighbors in Orangewood Grove when the house was destroyed. On Feb. 2, tornados destroyed her friends’ home on Bott’s Landing Road.
Her animals survived and are staying with friends. Nickolai is coping with her losses, though her eyes tear up as she talks about one friend, a Wal-Mart employee from Lake County, who died in the tornados. She said many people who lost loved ones from Lake County need counseling.
“The death of my friends is hard to take,” she said. “This has touched everyone in Volusia County, in some way.”
Red Cross Disaster Mental Health Volunteer Kate Amatruda, Board-Certified Expert in Traumatic Stress, said cumulative stress can be a major problem for disaster victims, especially when one disaster follows another, or when there are several losses from one disaster. The Red Cross offers emotional support in times of disaster.
One of the ways Nickolai copes is offering her own support. Since going to the Red Cross shelter in Deland, she leaves each day to help friends recover, make arrangements for a new apartment, and gather resource information for the Red Cross. When a man arrived at the shelter in a medical-issue disposable “paper suit,” she donated her extra pair of sweats and a shirt for him to wear.
She does all this with a hurt elbow from the Christmas Day Tornados, with swelling and puncture wounds in her left leg, and still recovering from cancer treatments.
She doesn’t understand why people haven’t gone to the shelter to get help, rather than staying at their homes, worrying about their possessions. She thinks some may be so traumatized, they might never come in.
People should pull together in a disaster, like ants do, Nickolai said.
“I ain’t never seen ants pack suitcases and leave the mound and say I ain’t going to help,” she said.
“I’m blessed to be alive,” she added.
All American Red Cross disaster assistance is free, made possible by voluntary donations of time and money from the American people. You can help the victims of thousands of disasters across the country each year, disasters like the tornadoes in Central Florida, by making a financial gift to the American Red Cross Disaster Relief Fund, which enables the Red Cross to provide shelter, food, counseling and other assistance to victims of disaster. The American Red Cross honors donor intent. If you wish to designate your donation to a specific disaster please do so at the time of your donation. Call 1-800-REDCROSS or 1-800-257-7575 (Spanish). Contributions to the Disaster Relief Fund may be sent to your local American Red Cross chapter or to the American Red Cross,
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